
What I liked and disliked
about Toastmasters. In the beginning I thought it was great. Humor
and Inspiration are the keys.
Table Topics (Favorite Aspect): You found this to be the "greatest
thing about Toastmasters," appreciating the skill of great
speakers to ad-lib under any circumstance. You personally found
you could be funny when doing Table Topics naturally.
Skill Improvement & Education: You recommend Toastmasters
to anyone who wants to improve their public speaking, noting the
tremendous transformation of members (like the lawyer who overcame
stuttering). You enjoyed watching the "experts in action."
The Power of Humor and Inspiration: You state these two elements
are the keys to a good speech and the key to enjoying Toastmasters.
Helpful Feedback: You found the comments from other Toastmasters
to be very helpful, especially for seeing mistakes you couldn't
spot yourself.
Off-the-Cuff/Video Rehearsal Success: You found you did well
when speaking off the cuff or when rehearsing by videotaping and
watching yourself.
Positive Uplifting Experiences: Your short, charitable speech
to 75 students was a highly rewarding and "uplifting experience."
Toastmasters Magazine: You enjoyed reading some of the stories
published in the magazine.
What I Disliked & Found Problematic
Competition and Division: You strongly disliked the competitive
nature, stating that the ribbons pit one member against another
and can destroy the core Toastmasters goal of "Bringing People
Together."
You called the expensive silk ribbons "childish"
and questioned the practice of "rubbing it in the nose of
the loser."
You noted that eliminating this practice would save money
for local groups.
Politics and Hierarchy: You felt the entire foundation of
Toastmasters seems to be based upon politics due to the titles
(Presidents, Governors, etc.) and witnessed competition for recognition
(the Monterey Language Institute ribbon incident).
Speaking Constraints: You felt the environment was a Controlled
Speaking Environment which did not fully prepare you for speaking
to strangers. You cited the President who excelled at the club
level but failed to duplicate the speech at a contest.
Content Restrictions: You stressed the need to avoid politics
and religion to prevent being blacklisted. You had a negative
interaction with a Governor after pointing out the large number
of ribbons won by one group.
Over-Preparation: Your personal fault was being too prepared
and trying to read your speech verbatim, making the information
hard for the audience to digest.
Physical Nerves: You advised against drinking coffee before
a speech due to increased nervousness.
Sgt. at Arms Responsibility: You disliked the cost of ordering
the ribbons and the feeling that members were hurt or cheated
when they didn't win.
Your Advice for Improvement
Seek Variety: Visit different clubs and speak in front of
different people every week, as speaking to the same group for
too long is not as helpful.
Keep it Simple: Don't over-prepare or try to give too much
information; keep it simple and practice.
Use Video: Rehearse by videotaping yourself and rewatching
your expressions and mistakes.
Avoid Divisive Topics: Stay away from politics and religion
in your speeches.
Skip the Coffee: Do not drink coffee before delivering a speech.
Depending on the person it can help or hurt you're delivery.
If you have any questions please email me at bca@got.net